I had almost eleven months between jobs. Well, jobs where I was employed by someone other than myself, that is. Of course I still had my Zazzle stores, but they weren't bringing in enough to pay the bills. Feel free to take pity on me, visit that link and order something awesome.
I am finally re-employed again though...and back at the University of Washington again to boot! Hooray! They have awesome benefits and the pay isn't actually that bad compared to what I could have been paid now that I know what else is out there. I'll have my first almost full week starting on 5/31. They told me I get paid for the holiday too. How radical a start to work is that!?
Anyway, I actually wanted to get out of the department I was working in for a few years prior to my layoff so it was a bit of a blessing in disguise. And a pretty good lesson on how to live frugally too. I've had that lesson a few times in my life, but never while living on my own and supporting three of my kids at the same time.
It's been tough, but I've managed. I could have been a bit more frugal by using more coupons. I've been watching my best friend, Cynthia cut back on her family budget and she's learning all about clipping coupons, and saving big time. And she's just an awesome person to know in general. That link you see there goes to her facebook business page. Check her out, she's pretty amazing!
Speaking of coupons, there is now an Extreme Couponing show on television where people save between 80% and 100% on their shopping trips. It totally fascinates me and I wish I could do that in this lovely city of Seattle. Of course, they can use more than one coupon for a single item and can double their coupons too. Not something that the stores in Seattle allow, unfortunately. The coupons I get say "do not double" and "not valid with any other offers". (insert sad face)
Please, do tell me if I'm wrong - I'd absolutely love to hear that - and hear where to get doubling coupons for this area too if they exist!
So, I actually wrote all of the above last night and then today, I've done a ton of research and (re) discovered The Krazy Coupon Lady. I actually knew about this website for at least the last four years now, but for some reason, I've never really read it. I guess I just got discouraged because so many people told me that it is so hard to coupon in Seattle and that it takes hours upon hours of planning and I just did not have the motivation to do it.
Well, I do now! There is a specific reason that I will read through The Krazy Coupon Lady website: it has a beginners section where they have a ten day program to teach you how to get started. Frakking cool! Not only that, but they say that they really don't spend the hours I thought I needed to do this ... maybe two hours a week is what Joanie said she spends. And, she was featured on that Extreme Couponing show too.
So, I'll be starting that as of today...I'll just fit it in between all the other things I have on my to-do list for today. I'll actually probably read through day one tonight after the kids are in bed.
And now I'm off to get "breakfast" done. I put that in quotations because we've all actually eaten something but I promised the kids my homemade waffles with homemade strawberry syrup so we will be eating that for lunch I guess. But I'm still calling it breakfast. (grin)
Until Next Time,
JessicaInSeattle
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Fathers
Father's Day is coming up and every year, I think about this story. Every Father's Day holds a special place in my heart because I have never wished my dad a happy Father's Day. Not because I'm cold hearted but purely because I have never met him.
I have always wanted to find my dad. I have never seen his face, never seen a photograph of him, never heard his voice and have never been able to say "I just looked like my dad when I did that!" I came into this world 9 months after a one night stand. I have the name of one of his friends from almost forty years ago and I know his hair colour, and eye colour. The one friend now suffers from alzeimers and does not remember my dad. My search ended with a single phone call.
I have a recurring dream where a man walks by me while I'm sitting on a park bench and I look up and know that it's him. I have lost all hope of ever finding him; ever knowing if I have siblings, cousins, grandparents. I had to let go of the idea of ever knowing that side of my family; that side of myself.
Sixteen years ago I had a daughter. Her father moved away days before I knew for certain I was pregnant and I have been unable to find him. Our mutual friends didn't know where he had gone. He just disappeared one day.
To have my daughter suffer the same pain and emptiness that comes from not knowing your father is heartbreaking to me. If I can never know my father, that is one thing. But for my daughter to never know hers...I just have to find him. I hired an investigator to help me about five years ago. She was what I could afford at the time (not very much) and she came back empty handed.
I am a single mom and my daughter has been through a lot. She started high school last year and made some poor choices. She went to stay with a family member to straighten things out and her body responded to the cleaner air in a way that makes it impossible for her to live in the city again. She's allergic to pollution. I live in Seattle; not a city that makes you think of pollution, but there is enough for her to react.
She now lives in the next state and I haven't seen her in almost six months. I remember being her age and I remember thinking that I had a piece of myself that was missing. I went through a rough patch at about the same time. Now, not only does she not know her father, but she doesn't have her mother by her side anymore either.
It took me until I was in my 30s to come to peace with not having my father in my life. I don't want my daughter to have to suffer for another 15 years because I can't find her dad. She has a right to know who her father is and her father has a right to know that he has a beautiful, intelligent daughter who has his ears, his jaw line, his brown eyes and even his feet.
I know his name (Brock Will), his age (around mine), where I last knew he lived (Ashland, Oregon). But my daughter needs to see his face, hear his voice. She needs to know this part of herself so she can overcome the struggle she suffers to know who she is. She needs to know if she has siblings, cousins, grandparents.
She needs to be able to say "I just looked like my dad when I did that!"
I hope one day my search for Brock Will can come to an end so my daughter can know her father.
If anyone who happens to read this knows someone named Brock Will, or someone with a name close to that, please send him a link to this blog entry. If it's him, he'll know.
Until Next Time,
JessicaInSeattle
I have always wanted to find my dad. I have never seen his face, never seen a photograph of him, never heard his voice and have never been able to say "I just looked like my dad when I did that!" I came into this world 9 months after a one night stand. I have the name of one of his friends from almost forty years ago and I know his hair colour, and eye colour. The one friend now suffers from alzeimers and does not remember my dad. My search ended with a single phone call.
I have a recurring dream where a man walks by me while I'm sitting on a park bench and I look up and know that it's him. I have lost all hope of ever finding him; ever knowing if I have siblings, cousins, grandparents. I had to let go of the idea of ever knowing that side of my family; that side of myself.
Sixteen years ago I had a daughter. Her father moved away days before I knew for certain I was pregnant and I have been unable to find him. Our mutual friends didn't know where he had gone. He just disappeared one day.
To have my daughter suffer the same pain and emptiness that comes from not knowing your father is heartbreaking to me. If I can never know my father, that is one thing. But for my daughter to never know hers...I just have to find him. I hired an investigator to help me about five years ago. She was what I could afford at the time (not very much) and she came back empty handed.
I am a single mom and my daughter has been through a lot. She started high school last year and made some poor choices. She went to stay with a family member to straighten things out and her body responded to the cleaner air in a way that makes it impossible for her to live in the city again. She's allergic to pollution. I live in Seattle; not a city that makes you think of pollution, but there is enough for her to react.
She now lives in the next state and I haven't seen her in almost six months. I remember being her age and I remember thinking that I had a piece of myself that was missing. I went through a rough patch at about the same time. Now, not only does she not know her father, but she doesn't have her mother by her side anymore either.
It took me until I was in my 30s to come to peace with not having my father in my life. I don't want my daughter to have to suffer for another 15 years because I can't find her dad. She has a right to know who her father is and her father has a right to know that he has a beautiful, intelligent daughter who has his ears, his jaw line, his brown eyes and even his feet.
I know his name (Brock Will), his age (around mine), where I last knew he lived (Ashland, Oregon). But my daughter needs to see his face, hear his voice. She needs to know this part of herself so she can overcome the struggle she suffers to know who she is. She needs to know if she has siblings, cousins, grandparents.
She needs to be able to say "I just looked like my dad when I did that!"
I hope one day my search for Brock Will can come to an end so my daughter can know her father.
If anyone who happens to read this knows someone named Brock Will, or someone with a name close to that, please send him a link to this blog entry. If it's him, he'll know.
Until Next Time,
JessicaInSeattle
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Featured Products: Textured iPad and iPhone Cases
There are so many awesome designs on Zazzle, sometimes it is hard to choose something to feature. But there are a selection of "textured" iPad and iPhone cases that caught my eye and I just can't hold back. I have to share in the awesomeness!
I put "textured" in quotes because they aren't actually textured, but look like they are! You want to feel them to be sure they aren't actually wood, leather, rusty metal other textures.
Enough of my trying to explain it. They say a picture is worth a thousand words, so you be the judge!
See, you want to touch them all, don't you! Just to feel if they are really leather, wood, fabric (which they actually are) but they certainly aren't burlap or jeans!
Until Next Time,
JessicaInSeattle
I put "textured" in quotes because they aren't actually textured, but look like they are! You want to feel them to be sure they aren't actually wood, leather, rusty metal other textures.
Enough of my trying to explain it. They say a picture is worth a thousand words, so you be the judge!
See, you want to touch them all, don't you! Just to feel if they are really leather, wood, fabric (which they actually are) but they certainly aren't burlap or jeans!
Until Next Time,
JessicaInSeattle
Monday, May 2, 2011
Featured Artist: Helena Pion
I don't currently have a Squidoo account, and I already have established followers of this blog, so I thought "What better place to feature a designer than this place right here!"
Feature a designer? Yep. Her name is Helena Pion and she has a selection of absolutely astounding designs on Zazzle.com.
Some of her iPhone and iPad designs will be featured in this blog, particularly her zebra striped ones for today. And just because she's got so many awesome products, I might feature more of her items tomorrow! So keep your eye out and be prepared to be delighted!
One of the totally awesome things about her striped products is that you can change the background colour to whatever your little heart desires so you can make it your very favourite colour if you so choose! Now how cool is that?
And another amazing thing is that each design is available on all three cases: iPhone 3, iPhone 4 and iPad!
Feature a designer? Yep. Her name is Helena Pion and she has a selection of absolutely astounding designs on Zazzle.com.
Some of her iPhone and iPad designs will be featured in this blog, particularly her zebra striped ones for today. And just because she's got so many awesome products, I might feature more of her items tomorrow! So keep your eye out and be prepared to be delighted!
One of the totally awesome things about her striped products is that you can change the background colour to whatever your little heart desires so you can make it your very favourite colour if you so choose! Now how cool is that?
And another amazing thing is that each design is available on all three cases: iPhone 3, iPhone 4 and iPad!
See what I mean? Totally cute and awesome! And wherever you see white, yellow, blue, green, etc in between the black stripes, you can change those to match whatever colour you choose! Fun stuff! Enjoy shopping!
Until Next Time,
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